Recommendations, guidelines, knowledge or your lived experiences as perhaps the expected flow/standard, but definitely not the rules. 

Therefore, if you want something - ask, search, read between the lines, find a way to make it happen and go for it. 

An attempt with a pure heart and an open mind. 

Try without fear, condemnation, guilt, shame. Because some part of you wants it. Listen to yourself. Life wants to please you to fulfill the wishes you were born with (because if it wasn't so I wouldn't have them), you just have to be ready to find out again and again, in every situation, what you want, following your feeling and acting in according to him. Try "small things" and then over time with bigger and more important things, in order to gain the conviction that everything is possible, if you don't have it so far.  

If you act like that, what is good for you will be part of you. What is not, will not and should not. Accept, let go and move on. A million wishes, a million experiences... you don't have to make every one come true, but you have to do something with each one instead of just thinking about it. 

  Wishes as wishes - they are given to us for a reason. 

Live your desires instead of being a slave to any rules.

E.g. The picture was taken on a property next to a restaurant, in beautiful nature, but I wanted to drink coffee on the grass, with birds chirping instead of on restaurant chairs, surrounded by the noise of other people. Although it is already a restaurant in nature, in a wonderful place. You wish and you ask.   Even though it's the first time, don

P.S: Again, neither these nor all my words (or anyone else's) should be experienced as a new rule or exclusivity and you try to apply it always and everywhere. Because, the one who already lives according to certain rules, acts in accordance with the Contracts he signed, has also taken responsibility for them. Therefore, act in accordance with the responsibility you have taken (which for you can also mean rules) until, following your feelings, you change the same if you need to. 

I want to impose. Because everyone has their own truth, and you can "borrow" someone else's if it inspires you to reach your own.